The friendship coordination tax
Why the hardest part of seeing people is often the invisible work before the plan exists.
Notes
Better plans, better weekends.
A small collection of GatherIRL thinking on calendars, friendship, and the social systems that help people keep showing up.
Calendar overlap is social infrastructure
A shared free window can be the difference between "sometime soon" and an actual Thursday night.
Designing for real-life follow-through
Good planning software should reduce decisions, surface context, and make the next step obvious.